Why You Should Quit More

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Quitters never win and winners never quit, right? WRONG! Greg, you’re freaking me out again. Don’t you preach you  should never give up? Now you’re telling me it’s OK to quit? Did you get a little too much gas at the dentist? Take an early and often trip to Magaritaville? Are you just plain losin’ it?

Slow down, speed racer, let me explain.

I understand the conventional wisdom is that you should never give up once you’ve set your mind to something. I agree with that – to a point.

But there’s a big difference between giving up and deciding to quit something. If you stop working towards what you know is your Passionate Purpose because it’s too hard, or someone talked you out of it, or you got sidetracked on unimportant things, or you had to watch the Game of Thrones marathon so you finally know what everyone’s talking about, that’s giving up. That’s what I hope you won’t do.

If, however, you are trying out new things to see what fits on you, to see what excites you, and what you might want to go deeper on, it’s perfectly OK to stop doing something once you find out you truly don’t enjoy it.

How will you know what you really like if you don’t try it? I don’t want you to feel like once you try something new you can never quit or you’re a failure. That might stop you from trying awesome things. And how can you keep being awesome if you stop trying awesome things?

(Who’s awesome? YOU’RE AWES…ok, sorry, got carried away.)

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What if you discover what you’re struggling with isn’t really your Passionate Purpose after all? What if you realize you’re trying to do what you think you’re supposed to do. What if you’re actually trying to live out the dream your parents had for your life, or you’re trying to please someone else? Wouldn’t it be crazy to keep pursuing someone else’s goals?

How do you know the difference between giving up and quitting? Here’s what I do and what I make my children do. If you want to try something new, like a new project, job, career, sport, instrument, dance lessons, etc. determine a set amount of time that you are going to continue trying it no matter what. (A rule of thumb is six months to a year.) If you decide you don’t like it at the end of your trial period, you can quit without being a “quitter.”

You aren’t quitting because you can’t stick with something. You did stick with it. You did what you set out to do. You learned it wasn’t a good fit for you and now you’re moving on to something else.

If it is a good fit for you, keep doing it! Start going deeper. You’re on your way.

Remember, you can try a new job or business without quitting your old one. You can ease into it. You don’t have to GO BIG right away. You don’t have to take a big leap and risk everything. You can take baby steps to get started. But you must take action and get started. Do it today!

Question for comments: When’s the last time you tried something new to see if it was a good fit? How did you know?

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