Sometimes we aim too high, too fast, and then should all over ourselves. I should have gotten more done. I should have been smarter. I should have achieved my goal already.
Two things happened to me this week to remind me how destructive all that is.
First, I heard an interview where a world class, female athlete was asked how she accomplished so much. Her reply was awesome.
“I didn’t really have lofty goals when I started. I just wanted to get good enough and make enough money to feed my dog. Once I did that, I set higher goals. Now I set goals I couldn’t have dreamed of before.”
Yes! She created a goal, achieved it, and then created momentum. She has so much confidence now that her goals are enormous.
She didn’t live by the t-shirt slogan, “Go Big or Go Home.” She went small, won, went bigger, won, and now she goes LARGE!
One way to keep momentum going is to have constantly greater goals.
Don’t get me wrong. Setting big goals is an awesome thing to do. Just don’t let the size of them paralyze you from taking action. Don’t become discouraged because you didn’t change the world in a day.
Instead, take your big goal and break it down. Create smaller goals to get there and action plans for the next year, six months, month, week and day. Take action every day and watch your small steps turn into something BIG.
The second thing that happened to me was a new friend of mine spoke eloquently to me about Grace. He reminded me that we are all flawed. No matter how much we try, we make mistakes. All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.
Give yourself some Grace.
Give your friends and family some Grace.
Take a breath.
If you’ve had a tough time or two, budget some time for a pity party if necessary (not for long, though).
Question for comments: What small goal led to something you didn’t think you could accomplish?